I am not sure where I stand on the Expectation and Attachments... I am struggling a lot in this area.
I heard that having expectations is honoring future resentment or something like that. In other words, not good to have ANY expectations.
Right now, my daughter in-law (not technically yet) does not reach out to my husband n I to take the infant or more true our toddler grandson. We want to take him n get to building a relationship with him. We can visit, but we can’t take him. I feel VERY offended. I’ve tried getting to the bottom of it to understand n haven’t gotten anywhere. There s just so much more to this story then I am writing.
I am just so frustrated. We just want to spend time with the kids on our own. Have fun n be carefree. We haven’t done a thing to warrant any kind of mistreatment. It’s like she could care less if we even see the kids. We seem to be a bother.
Good stuff!
I am not sure where I stand on the Expectation and Attachments... I am struggling a lot in this area.
I heard that having expectations is honoring future resentment or something like that. In other words, not good to have ANY expectations.
Right now, my daughter in-law (not technically yet) does not reach out to my husband n I to take the infant or more true our toddler grandson. We want to take him n get to building a relationship with him. We can visit, but we can’t take him. I feel VERY offended. I’ve tried getting to the bottom of it to understand n haven’t gotten anywhere. There s just so much more to this story then I am writing.
I am just so frustrated. We just want to spend time with the kids on our own. Have fun n be carefree. We haven’t done a thing to warrant any kind of mistreatment. It’s like she could care less if we even see the kids. We seem to be a bother.
Julie I’m sorry you are going through that with your family. It’s heartbreaking not to be able to see the kids.