So beautifully said and so deeply resonate with what it means to do this deconstruction work! We deconstruct the old paradigms, the old thoughts and patterns we’re playing on repeat to make space for the new structures we’re building, the ones that are in alignment with our true self, operating from that center of unmovable peace. I find so much of my own message here - I’m glad to be connected!
You raise a very important point about personality. It's not fixed, but we think it is because of behaviors we have repeated over and over. Often those behaviors are the result of what we think others want. We have a different personality in front of close friends than work associates. We can change. We do it all the time. And don't know it. Good piece.
So beautifully said and so deeply resonate with what it means to do this deconstruction work! We deconstruct the old paradigms, the old thoughts and patterns we’re playing on repeat to make space for the new structures we’re building, the ones that are in alignment with our true self, operating from that center of unmovable peace. I find so much of my own message here - I’m glad to be connected!
Keep looking at things critically, Kaitlin! As a way to expand, not contract. This is good work. Im glad this resonated so much with you.
You raise a very important point about personality. It's not fixed, but we think it is because of behaviors we have repeated over and over. Often those behaviors are the result of what we think others want. We have a different personality in front of close friends than work associates. We can change. We do it all the time. And don't know it. Good piece.
Excellent point on having different personalities in front of different people. The most important one to be aware of is when we are with ourselves!
Yes, 100% on that. Of course, a lot of folks don’t have that time with themselves because they’re glued to a screen.
That’s true
I love your thoughtful writing! Beautiful!